Is it just me or...........

Do I have a tattoo on my forehead that says.....Will support, answer and generally live your life for you so you do not have to suffer through any hardships.....I must..Really! Am I such a sucker that people think that I am the answer to all the problems in life?

For those of you who know me well,(you know who your are) you know I would move heaven and earth to help you if I can.....I do that willingly because you mean so much to me........But for those people I hardly ever speak with and only know them as an acquaintance, there must be a tattoo on my forehead. Why oh Why do they ask me to help them with aspects of their lives that I really should not be privy too?

I get to work this morning and listen to the one message on my answering machine and find out it has nothing to do with my job. This person who left the message would like me to help her with legal documents regarding her child support issues...HUH? Come on! Do I look like Legal Aid? I talk to this person occasionally, I try not to make it a habit because she never stops talking....Which is awkward for me when the phone is ringing and she just keeps on talking as I am answering the call...

Is it me? Am I too nice?? Do I change my persona at work just to avoid this? What? I have a terrible time saying no to people, I know this! But why do I get put in the position where I need to say no and then feel bad about it? I hate that....

Am I an easy mark? Do I make it that easy for people to approach me for help? I help! I have no problem with that, as long as I know you and sincerely love ya! Of course then I will do anything for you!.....But why do virtual strangers come to me with this merda?

I know I am redundant here...but the same questions just keep spinning in my head.....Why Me?